Single ladies?!-How we’re spending our Valentine’s day

I am really happy that many of my friends still get thrilled about Valentine’s day and the romance that comes with it even if some of us won’t be getting any😣 but the thrill that comes with the is something I personally enjoy, that “who is your valentine?” question can never get old, many people say it’s not a big deal and I’ll grow out of it, well I am waiting for that time. So like the topic says, I only need single people here(and it’s obviously not because I’m hating on people in love, duh!).


  • First of all:

We are slaying in red! Yes, yes, I know this seems very old, red doesn’t mean valentine, but I’m following old trends please, growing up my mummy specifically wore red on Valentine’s day so who am I not to continue the tradition(Okay, I should be sincere I didn’t wear red today I was too late for class there was nothing red in sight😂, I’m starting next year💪). My point is do you and feel pretty.

  • Fall in love with yourself all over again.

Being single is not a bad thing, I have had so much time for myself, don’t have to compromise for anyone, I treat myself the way I want to be treated and I have had so much time to grow emotionally, spiritually, even intellectually, it gets lonely sometimes for real, but I don’t feel it much I am surrounded with single ladies so I’m not alone (I think that’s a bad reason though). Please don’t get me wrong though, you can do all these things while in a relationship and even more, like they say “two heads are better than one” but I really think there are things I can do for myself and no relationship I have will ever fix it for me, so that’s what I’m working on, just understand yourself and your needs. So for now, we’re slaying and growing single until God is ready to do a little flickering of the LOML towards my side.

Good food

  • Treat yourself.

So I have exams in a week or two, but I’m trying not to do so much reading and stressing right now, I’m going to buy something delish to eat and I’m going to see a movie too!(one of my fav things in the world). My point any way is you should be treating yourself right now, not just on Valentine’s day obviously, I am sure you wont expect your bae to show you love only on valentine’s day, anyway I mean you should get yourself some ice-cream, satisfy yourself, watch as many movies as you want to and if there’s no money for all these, take a walk and breathe in fresh air (I will do this too), think about the future and be grateful for your past, present and possibly what the future holds.

  • Appreciate your loved ones.

No one and nothing on earth beats my family and friends, I have so much love for these people and I can’t even ask for anything better than them. My family, for being there for me every single time!, loving me, giving me the best life, they mean so much I can’t even say, and my friends for cracking my ribs even in times I had no intention of smiling, for boxing me out of bad times(literally boxing me!, they don’t take nonsense😂), and for teaching me mediocre thoughts are not the way. You should call, message or probably just thank God for them with a little prayer on their behalf. These will just do.

  • Show love on social media.

There are so many memes already on Twitter about Valentine’s day(they’re actually funny), but instead of just retweeting or tweeting all those stuff you can let people know they need to show love to themselves or in short show love whichever way you can make people know they’re loved.
Let’s be happy!

Hi! I’m Ale Oluwabusolami, you can call me Busola😊. I am a proud Nigerian and Yoruba girl, also quite privileged to be a physician in training. Probably not important but I am proudly dark skinned😊, I’m a big foodie, starting with shawarma and Ice-cream(yes! They deserve some highlight). I love shoes, I love travelling, I love adventure, My friends tell me I talk too much, I love my happy mood, I love surprises, I love romance, I love mystery, I love life generally and I love learning more everyday about it, I love beautiful places, they speak to my soul, other things responsible for that are music and quotes! I love my friends and family so much, finally, I love God. Basically, I’m just an average girl with an ambitious life, looking forward to an awesome one too. This is my little way of projecting those crazy things that go on in my head and I really hope that with time you will understand what exactly I am trying to say and do and it will be of great help to us. Yes! I am actually a queen, not in the royal concept though (I wish 😊), mine is way better, I queen in everything and I am not the only one, there's like a billion of us.❤


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