Relationships

A man’s annoying female….

I don’t think relationship advice are for stubborn people like me, because sometimes things only begin to make sense after I’ve made a mess. That shouldn’t be a bad thing and the things I see on all those relationship pages are very important to me because even if they don’t prevent me from making mistakes or doing foolish things they make me know when something is going wrong and when somethings don’t add up.

When a guy walks away or cheats on a girl, she begins to question herself and her self worth, don’t know about you but I did, and that doesn’t make me weak or low standard, it just makes me a normal person who had a little bit of chaos and was shaken. The truth is, not everyone will want what you have to offer no matter how good it is and that doesn’t diminish its worth, you’ll still find people that don’t like ice cream, trust me! Not me though I cherish ice cream.😊

Truth is, You’re not crazy for wanting more when you think you aren’t getting enough neither are you doing too much, and I’m talking to good women who know what they want and are ready to show the love they have because no matter how had we try to ignore it there are bad and very evil women. And most of the time it’s better to be with someone who is ready to bend their rules for you while you’re doing the same.

You can’t keep a man, when you see the “how to keep your man” talk trust me its a complete scam, I think every lady should put in effort in a man who has shown signs that he’s ready to stay and be kept, not putting effort for him to be kept.
One man’s “annoying female” is another man’s “Damn baby where have you been all my life” you are awesome and somebody somewhere is hungry for what you have to give and its a loss to those who couldn’t see it and I think you should wait for that…

A friend always tells me that when I talk about relationships I sound like I have dated more than a hundred guys, but sometimes it can take one bad experience to teach you a million things. I always thought the only thing that could make me leave a guy was if he cheated on me but you never know what a relationship entails until you get into it, so right now I know that not being appreciated for who you are or not being given the love you feel you actually deserve is just as bad. I will be telling my story soon, so you might want to stick around a little because I have a lot to tell😀

AruwaQueen
Hi! I’m Ale Oluwabusolami, you can call me Busola😊. I am a proud Nigerian and Yoruba girl, also quite privileged to be a physician in training. Probably not important but I am proudly dark skinned😊, I’m a big foodie, starting with shawarma and Ice-cream(yes! They deserve some highlight). I love shoes, I love travelling, I love adventure, My friends tell me I talk too much, I love my happy mood, I love surprises, I love romance, I love mystery, I love life generally and I love learning more everyday about it, I love beautiful places, they speak to my soul, other things responsible for that are music and quotes! I love my friends and family so much, finally, I love God. Basically, I’m just an average girl with an ambitious life, looking forward to an awesome one too. This is my little way of projecting those crazy things that go on in my head and I really hope that with time you will understand what exactly I am trying to say and do and it will be of great help to us. Yes! I am actually a queen, not in the royal concept though (I wish 😊), mine is way better, I queen in everything and I am not the only one, there's like a billion of us.❤

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